Dhamma Talk Audio 16: Knowing Others Before Drawing Conclusions
Here is a 59-min recorded audio-only Dhamma Talk, from an in-person event at Nandaka, to an audience of about 60. (58MB .mp3).
Topics:
- surprises, remaining calm, world travel, story of the dirty golden ring, ethics, morality, sila, sīla, relationships, reserving being judgemental, appraising arahantship, “sleepers”, getting to know people, being a good conversationalist, 2-way discussion as a way to test people’s knowledge and understanding, building trust
Dhamma References:
- AN 4.104 - “Lakes”
- One is shallow but appears deep,
- one is deep but appears shallow,
- one is shallow and appears shallow, and
- one is deep and appears deep.
- Ud 6.2 - “Seven Matted-Hair Ascetics”
You can get to know a person’s ethics by living with them. But only after a long time, not casually; only when paying attention, not when inattentive; and only by the wise, not the witless. You can get to know a person’s purity by dealing with them. … You can get to know a person’s resilience in times of trouble. … You can get to know a person’s wisdom by discussion. But only after a long time, not casually; only when paying attention, not when inattentive; and only by the wise, not the witless.”
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